You goes a long way, as it is about a person one who can create or destroy. Make You (yourself) great doing that needed at the right time. She's not properly dressed, no scarf, instead of you to preach to her, you are shouting "WOW!!! You look sexy.... Brother you are part of the problem. A preacher said "if you know what I know, you will laugh less and cry more" does that ring a bell in our head? Do we have to see before we believe? Please repent. I want to have money, I want to marry a beautiful wife, I want to marry a handsome guy, I want to buy a nice car, I want to build a big house, is that all we think about? We will all die and leave all these. Vanity You think regret is when you did not marry the man you wanted, or did not study the course you liked? NO! Regret is you reaching the grave without enough good deeds" vanity Rich, poor, pretty, ugly, slim, fat, literate, illiterate, white, black, pastor, player, King, slave, PDP,...